Jill Bolte Taylor’s popular TED video, best-selling book, and interview on Oprah have really got people talking. Suddenly, the silent experiences of millions of stroke and brain injury survivors have entered mainstream consciousness! As a TBI (traumatic brain injury) survivor and intuitive life coach, I get so many questions from people wondering if biochemistry and trauma awaken spirituality in everyone, or just them. While I certainly can’t speak for everyone, I do recognize an above-average interest in spiritual growth and intuitive awareness in people whose brains have been short-circuited. The process thrills and terrifies, so here are some tips for handling the Awakening:
1) Know that you are not alone. Yes, it may seem like no one in the world has had this experience, but people have had mystical encounters for millennia. Some, such as Hildegaard von Bingen or Fyodor Dostoyevski, are believed to have suffered from severe migraines and/or epilepsy. Many medical intuitives like Carmen Bell and Tiffany Snow attribute their gifts to a near-death experience. My own Medical Intuition increased dramatically after a moderate concussion.
Does a biochemical component negate such experiences? Far from there! Scientists have recently studied long-term meditators, locating areas in the brain that show more or less activity than in “normal” brains. Yoga offers a four to eight thousand year old tradition of balancing biochemistry to relax the body, quiet the mind and awaken a deeper Spiritual Awareness. If you suddenly feel like the veil has been parted, you may need to seek out people who share similar experiences, but rest assured: they are out there!
2) Stay open. When a stroke, brain injury, or other neurological condition suddenly opens pathways you never knew existed, you may be tempted to “turn things off.” In fact, many people contact me because they don’t know how to handle the attack of psychic awareness. “How do I unplug things?” they ask. “I don’t want to know these things!”
If you lived life from a rational perspective and suddenly see the future, read minds, or know your neighbor has cancer before they tell you, this information initially seems too difficult to handle. But I learned something ironic about sight and perception when a brain injury destroyed my visual system; if you feel overloaded, accept more information instead of running away from it.
Here’s why this works: Physiologically, our eyes are designed to scan the horizon for food and/or predators. Although most of us now spend more hours on the computer than hunting or gathering, our visual system is still quite similar to that of our ancestors, for whom any information equaled valuable information. If a saber-toothed tiger crouched to their left, or a buffalo wandered in the distance, they needed to know! A loss of peripheral vision meant a loss of general consciousness, which could mean death. Therefore, a reduced visual field still leads to a fight or flight response.
In today’s world, we can easily develop tunnel vision. If you spend eight hours in front of a computer and then go home and watch TV for a few hours or relax with a book (without looking into the distance or doing eye exercises), you have effectively reduced your field of vision. As the saying goes, “use it or lose it.” Constantly ignoring our peripheral vision can result in degradation so that we become less and less aware of our physical surroundings. Anxiety, irritability, and fear follow quickly, and no wonder! Our bodies are hardwired to fear the lack of visual information!
Eighty to ninety percent of the information we absorb comes from the visual system. The health of our visual system directly affects our thoughts, emotions, and ability to “see the forest through the trees.” As humans, we also have a Third Eye or intuitive center, which resides in the space between our eyebrows. According to yogis and long-term meditators, focusing on this area increases intuition. This Vision Center remains close to our visual center, because much of our memory, imagination, and insight are based on visual cues. If you suddenly find that your center of vision or perception (your third eye) is overloaded with information, trying to close the guide will only increase your anxiety, just as going blind as a hunter-gatherer would have caused your heart to race.
Humans instinctively fear the dark. If you feel too much intuitive awareness, turning on your inner light will help you much more than trying to turn it off.
3) Learn to develop a serene Consciousness. Well, you’re not supposed to censor information, but it still seems like a lot: how do you find a balance?
Try to center yourself, either alone or with a guided meditation. Repeating a mantra or listening to chants like those sung by Deva Premal or Krishna Das can help your mind relax without getting distracted. Ideally, you want something that draws you to your heart instead of playing hide-and-seek with thoughts. Focus on your heart chakra (in the center of your chest) and imagine warm gold, pink, or green light pulsing in a slow, radiant beat. As the impressions fly into your head, take them to your heart to feel and hear a response tempered with loving-kindness. In the Christian tradition, Jesus says, “Perfect love casts out fear,” and you know what? He actually does! Experiment and you’ll find that immersing yourself in unconditional compassion instantly eliminates worry.
Consider that the words “fear” and “sacred” contain all the same components, just slightly rearranged. We do not need to remove things to sanctify them. We just need to change the perspective. On her Awakened Heart Meditation CD, teacher Sally Kempton notes that in Sanskrit, the word for the heart chakra, hridaya, is also the word for “the highest gateway to reality.” Let your heart balance the information overload in your head.
4) Have fun! Her attitude toward these new gifts determines much of her experience. The intuitive approach collides with fear and life becomes a series of dire predictions and hunches. On the other hand, acknowledging the nudges of the universe can save you a lot of time, energy, and heartache. Many people find that heightened intuition coincides with a greater ability to manifest. If you have read or heard of “The Secret”, then you already know that your thoughts influence your reality. Why not have fun creating more of the life you want? Practice the intention of abundant and happy days. Ask about the synchronicities. Align your intentions with the highest good of all and watch the beauty unfold before you.
They say that God is in the details, but they also say that God has a wonderful sense of humor. Supposedly, the ability to understand jokes in another language marks fluency. When you start listening to Spirit’s jokes, you laugh with the universe. Life becomes comedy, and in theater comedy always means a happy ending. Light!
5) Ask for guidance. Just because you suddenly have access to more information doesn’t mean you’re alone. When you go to grad school, you still have professors. Life offers endless opportunities to learn and discern. If you are unsure of the guide, ask for clarity. If something pushes the limits of rationality, you can order custom-made signs to activate your faith.
The biblical story of Gideon reminds us that we can pray for interactive lessons. God told Gideon to save the Israelites by leading them into battle against their enemies. Gideon was inclined to believe in God, but because the lives of others were at stake, he asked for a sign. Specifically, he requested that if the Israelites were supposed to go into battle, then the wool that he placed on the ground would be wet while the ground remained dry. The next morning he found the wool wet and the ground dry, so he felt that God had answered his request. Still, he wanted to feel safe, so he asked for another sign. This time he asked for wet earth and dry wool. The next morning, he found dry wool on damp ground and knew that he could confidently lead the Israelites against his enemies. As Gideon intuited, the Israelites won.
You can ask for any signal you want, but don’t be surprised when events respond. Eventually, you will gain experience and more easily feel which pushes come from intuition and which are disguised projections of the ego. If you find yourself clinging to an intuition and trying to manipulate it, take it as a sign to reread the suggestions in this article, beginning with #1. The ego breeds fear, competition, anger, attachment, obsession, and anxiety. Rather, the fruits of the Spirit include: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
Awakening your intuition requires courage, but you will also learn to love your life. Many blessings on your journey!
