Does the fact that your husband has a friend jeopardize your marriage? Has she ever been jealous of her husband’s relationship or a little awkward if he has a friend? You are not alone and you should be careful with the relationship, especially if it is led by a woman. While on the surface there’s nothing wrong with inheriting your husband having a friend, it’s what lies beneath your relationship that can lead to trouble.

Let’s face it, men and women are completely different, and honestly, most men don’t share much in common with women outside of their family. This fact is the same or perhaps even more evident for women. So the idea that your husband has a friend is something to question. Even the most loyal husband has impure thoughts from time to time and if you’re arguing and this friend is one you trust with information, this could be a ticking time bomb waiting to explode.

Am I saying that all men who have girlfriends are prone to cheating in some very rare cases? No, but if there is enough time between her husband and her friend, the odds are 9 out of 10 that an affair will occur. You should always be on the lookout, even if you don’t find her husband’s friend attractive and he says he has no interest in her. This may very well be the case with him, but you never know that she may have hidden feelings for him or start developing a case of attraction, especially if she is single.

I have a good friend who was married and like many married couples they were going through a rough patch in their marriage nothing too serious but trouble nonetheless well his wife’s friend who recently got divorced started dating with my friend because they shared a taste for the same music. The red flag went off in my mind and I told him to be careful, he was getting into dangerous territory.

He thought he was overreacting since this was his wife’s friend. In fact hanging out and the relationship was initiated by her innocently at first. When she was married and they hung out as a couple, they laughed that they liked the same music and their spouses didn’t. They always talked about getting together and leaving their spouses behind to watch their favorite band as a constant joke between the two of them.