Do you feel insecure because you are single and live alone? It is time to rectify this feeling. What options do you really have? Read on to find out.
I have classified women into five possible groups and give them solutions:
- Single (Teenager to Single Lady)
Of course, you will be living with your original family during this time. But if you live in a foster home or with adapted parents, you will be in their care. Should any of the latter options pose a threat to you, talk to someone you know well enough to help you. You can also get help from the police department. Be bold and stand tall on your feet. It’s time to reclaim your power.
- Divorced women without children
If you are a divorced woman without children, you can re-enter the world of dating, this time with more cunning and care. Possibly, God will help you find a more suitable partner this time. Form a bond of trust with your new partner, feeling safe. As always, claim your power.
- single mothers
Single mothers can stay single, go to school and have a career, taking care of their child, or they can remarry a faithful and sincere man, trusting him. You raise your child from your first marriage in the presence of your new partner after confiding your past history to him. It is not necessary that you tell him all the evils, but only the necessary and important ones so that he accepts your son. On the basis of trust and love, you can rebuild a family and a home without feeling insecure.
In case the single mother decides to have a career, she should look for a suitable daycare or school where her child is safe. She will have to do some research about the place where she is going to stay, find out the security measures and maintain contacts with the police. This life is more challenging, but it is her choice and her power to claim.
- single women never married
This category of women is rare, but in different corners of society they exist. They can choose to stay with the original family, the family of a married brother/sister, or she can stay alone in an apartment where there is ample security. Again, like single moms who prefer to pursue a career, she needs to do some research on where she is going to stay and if it is safe enough, yes, she can go to her new home. It’s also good to find out if the landlord allows pets. Then she can have a pet dog that can keep an eye on her home even more. She should be at peace with the new home isolated from her and by all means claim power from her when the need arises.
- Married woman
Married women with or without children may be overly dependent on their spouses for emotional or domestic support. My advice to these women would be to learn to be independent as much as possible, develop emotional intelligence and take care of the home as much as possible. Then you can enlist your partner’s help in any of the areas, including problem solving, that you cannot solve on your own. The first step in any of the above areas would be to take back your power and do things your way.
In short, these are the options for different categories of women who do not have to feel insecure, but can claim their rights and live happily and peacefully forever.
