Anyone who is tired of attracting Mr. or Mrs. Wrong and still wants to find Mr. or Mrs. Right need look no further. Renée Michelle Gordon has the answer for you in the five-step process she developed to find her own soul mate, and now she shares that process so others can do the same in her new book Finding Your Love at Last.
If anyone has experience finding love, it’s Renee. In fact, she’s been engaged nine times, but each time, she ended up breaking off the engagement before walking down the aisle because she realized the man wasn’t her perfect soulmate. She learned how to make herself attractive to men through online dating websites, but she also learned how to discern which men she dated. When she started dating online, she expected to find six or seven potential suitors, one of whom would become her “love at last.” Instead, she was overwhelmed with men who wanted to date her. Using just one dating website, she received no fewer than 2,874 invitations to connect. With such overwhelming numbers, how could anyone choose the right man?
Well, Renée did it through a very careful five-step process. And since then, she has become a dating coach and shared her process with over 500 couples who have found lasting love, proof that her process definitely works. But she can’t help everyone who wants to find true love, so she now shares her process in this book to bring it to a wider audience.
Renée guides readers through the entire process, from how to create a winning online profile that will attract the right man or woman, reminding the reader that they are only looking for one; It’s Not a Popularity Contest: How to Screen People Out from Being Your Potential Suitors, Questions to Ask People on a Date, How to Interview Potential Soul Mates Without Making Them Feel Like They’re Being Interviewed, and Specific Things to Avoid , such as Dating in the workplace. It also warns us about potential red flags to look out for, what not to do on a date (like going to the movies), and why you should have your first meeting with someone in a place like a coffee shop where you just need to commit to half an hour instead of accepting a two or three hour dinner commitment.
Renée’s process is easy to follow and the discussion is also lively and entertaining. Most of the book is set up in an interview format in which Renée is interviewed by Peter Lisoskie, whose experience as a talk show host helped keep the questions interesting. Peter is also an expert in human behavior who joined the conversation by talking about his own dating experiences and sharing his knowledge of neuroscience to explain how our brains act when we’re looking for love. The result is a book that makes readers feel as if they are listening to two friends chatting in a coffee shop.
Plus, there’s a foreword by Jim Connelly, Renée’s husband of nearly fifteen years and counting. Throughout the book, Renée describes her and Jim’s relationship and how they determined they were each other’s love at last and the process they went through to make sure the love would last.
While much of the book is about internet dating, Renée also provides advice on other places to find love and how to connect with potential soulmates in social settings. The back of the book includes three special reports on how to get the Mojo back in her, how to write a winning profile, and the top 21 dating websites. These special reports alone are invaluable and full of good advice. I especially loved the mojo, which can help you feel sexier and more attractive so that you’re sending out the right vibe to attract Mr. or Mrs. Right.
Renée’s bright personality shines through throughout the book and the discussion is full of humor, but Renée will be the first to tell you that dating is a very serious process. She advocates removing emotion from the equation at least in the initial stages in order to choose Mr. Right in a logical way; otherwise she might become Mr. Wrong later. Dating isn’t just about sexual chemistry, either; it’s about finding long-term compatibility. Renée doesn’t hold back any blows by telling it like it is, so readers will be cautious and constantly keep her own interests in mind rather than settle for the first person she appears.
After reading this book and hearing the many stories Renée shares in it, I am convinced that Renée’s five-step process will work if you use it correctly. Reading this book will definitely be time well spent if you want to find your love at last.
